Derrick Smsith: If you care about this poor girl--TELL THE FAMILY.. why is everyone protecting HIM and not helping her?? Why are so many people out there afraid of these overbearing, cruel men?? He probably only married her because she was very young and uneducated and he could manipulate her. She needs to get out--get educated and get a life!
David Boehler: No. But they should.(I think they throw cats though.)Hahaha.
Tyrone Disanti: There are still some that are good, that are traditional and hetero and where they are set on being together no matter what; divorce is not an option. but for most people it just seems like it's gone down the tubes. You've got gay marriage (say whatever the heck you want; it's defined as an abomination), Vegas weddings (I mean the ones where you meet someone and get drunk and get married 3 hours later), people who get married just to say they're married, and those who are ready to divorce at the drop of a hat. None of those wer! e meant to be. Marriage was never meant to be that way. I'd say mostly bad. But maybe I've just seen too little of the good marriages. The only "good marriage" I've ever really seen was my grandparents' cuz they're old-timey and traditional. Been together 50-something years....Show more
Wilbur Marksberry: You're crazy no hamburgers are more pricey than rice.
Anibal Katayama: im asian and i didnt throw any hamburgers at my uncles wedding.
Dee Depung: I don't know what the stats are but my husband and I had premarital counseling with our pastor. It really helped us to learn how to communicate. He offers a six month follow-up which we will be attending shortly.
Corrinne Ruozzo: Help her out all you can, but keep your opinion to yourself. What's going to happen if you talk negatively about him and then they get back together? You're going to be the bad guy.
Anton Waln: You can help her by telling her that she needs to move on. She is too youn! g to be tied to a man that doesn't love her. First of all....! who cares what the in-laws think of her. If they want to judge her by not knowing the truth then that is their problem. Second, would it change their opinion if they did know the truth? Why make their son look bad when all she has to do is just get a divorce and move on. they love their son and no matter what they will believe him. She needs to just move on and get it over with....Show more
Maye Delk: nope the throw chicken Ala kinghamburger is a german dish.. chicken american..lol.. hamburger started in hamburg germany
Michel Mccaulley: If they did, my dog and I would be there!
Autumn Vacio: Things Women should remember in order to have a great marriage:1) Cook2) clean ( this pc 50/50 bs and womens lib is just nonsense)3) have lots of hot sex... not the boring stuff (vanilla) nah, try a bit of adventure: different positions, squirting technics etc4) listen a bit to what he says and engage in discussion.5) Dont tell him he's imature or stupid.6) Tell ! him that you care7) For goodness sake DONT nag - it really stuffs things up.8) And remember the MAN is the king of the house.In return. He will worship you, treat you like a queen, listen to you and above all he wont have the desire to hunting for other women. This being the primary reason for divorce !! . RIGHT GUYS ????Make ur man feel like a MAN = happy marriage !...Show more
David Boehler: LMAO!!! I've never heard of such a thing before. I don't know any Asians that would even consider having hamburgers in their dinner menus, it wouldn't be appropriate. More like garbage to me.
Jon Bergmeier: Sometimes, letting go seems like the easiest thing to do. But think about this: you've invested so much of your time and energy into another person; you've made a solemn promise; and you still know there's love, even if it's hiding underneath the surface. This website will show you how to save a marriage and avoid divorce, even if you're the only one trying https://tr.! im/Hh72O
Brittney Inabnit: Bad..Most of them like 80%.The reasons! : people nowadays are not true, too much information with easy access to meet new people every day it's tempting to fall, deceive or cheat on one another.More people are also too self center, shallow, egocentric and full of them selves. Too materialistic world, I highly doubt that true love can be easily found, sad but true. We've become a society who value the assets of the other rather than the legitimate qualities such as intelligence, warm hearted, simple, loving, helpful etc....it's more like money talks..sad.....Show more
Devon Kalberer: she needs to get a divorce and let the family know why.If they don't like it to bad.
Charissa Bichsel: Most people will not waste the time or money because when it gets that bad and that far, there is nothing to fix it.
Carlton Lastrapes: It is very difficult to find statistics and studies on whether premarital counseling works in preventing divorce because the determining factor is the couple and not so much the cou! nseling. Some couples go to premarital counseling, DO NOT use the information and they might or might not get divorced. Other couples do go, use the info., and they might or might not divorce.It could be said that those who work at their marriage do not get divorced, but you can’t do a study on this because no one will admit that they do or did not work at their marriage.I would check out Scott Stanley’s website, he is a marriage and family professor from the University of Denver. He, and others, have great info on this subject (see source box). Good luck with your marriage!!!...Show more
Raelene Cunnick: I'm going to do it, there are too many divorces in this world and we don't want one. We are going to work at our relationship no matter what it takes.We are very together and don't have any problems now, but who knows what might be down the road and this could help us :)
Nia Monopoli: unfortunatly people view divorce as a quick out which brings most mar! riage down cause people wont try to save it
Wilbert Shellgren: th! at poor girl. if you can help her you should. tell the in-laws the truth, they need to know that their son is not a golden saint.
Cyndy Grimes: Mixed bag; there are some good ones, some bad ones, some in-between.
Russel Gajate: Only if it's idiots getting married.
Piedad Bassiti: We had premarital counseling with our pastor and it helped a lot in setting expectations and considerations.i am in the playpen with sweet mildred
Eli Trapeni: Asians don't throw hamburgers at weddings coz it will be served at the reception :). Seriously, rice is also used in Asian weddings.
Nell Dipiero: asians do it slideways
Leif Serabia: We both don't believe in divorce!
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Clifford Gombos: that was tooo funny! made me laugh, have a nice day...and a star!
Karl Samiec: So much of this depends on the couple, their upbringing and the way they approach marriage. Let me explain. Marriages used to last much longer because people too! k them for what they were - 'till death do you part'. Now that may be in today's vows, but it isn't observed the same. At least not in the western world. Divorces can be filed with all the corresponding paperwork right over the internet. Online affairs, swapping and swinging, and numerous other activities plague our society. On top of that, there comes increasing pressure to maintain 2 incomes for many households just to keep up with the bills. And there seems to be a gap over the splitting of chores. I just mentioned this in one of my answers yesterday. When a couple meets, they try to impress who they're with by doing things they have no intention of doing when they're married. Wrong, wrong, wrong. You need to discuss chores, bills, whose money goes where, and all the boundary issues while you are still dating.I guess my answer is both! If you have the right approach and follow some basics (including those above), you might have the recipe for a good marriage. If you appr! oach marriage as a status symbol, you have the recipe for a bad union. ! Hope this helps....Show more
Rosie Travino: Just curious the stats on people who do pre-material Counseling vs. those who don't when it comes to divorce?
Ronnie Panas: My brother-in-law's wife, confess me that she is being having problems with my brother- in-law (she is 18 and he is 24) married for 3 yrs, but lately she says he has seeing other girls and he likes to go out with his friends and party (they have 2 kids the oldest is just his form another marriage he got custody, she is like a mother to her). He didn't allowed for her to work or finish school, but now he wants for her to go back with her mom or he will help rent an apartment (they live with my in-laws) He says he needs time to think about what he wants, but she said she rather get a divorce than be like this. She is afraid to tell anyone else because my in-laws and her parents think the problem is cuz of her jelousy reactions& frequent problems they have but they really don't know about the truth! . She had received calls from this girl's & he has confessed that he has being cheating.. How can I help her?? I believe the best will speak out so they can know what kind of hubby he is? ??...Show more
Florencio Dingle: I think that someone need to speak out. Especially your in-laws wife. If she is unhappy now, she need to move on. She is very young.
Malcom Bourek: umm,I have never heard that.you have a wild imagination!
Pam Rampadarat: Oh, I miss spelled premarital. That drives me crazy.
Ileen Oshell: Pre-marital counseling is almost always a good idea, so long as someone qualified facilitates it. Be very careful though, some "counselors" align themselves too much with one of the two seeking counseling, which will certainly cause long term problems. If you see that happening, stop going, trust me. Interestingly, Will Smith said it best when commenting on his current marriage vs. his previous one. With his current wife, he said that "divorce ! is not an option." That is the attitude to have in order to have a suc! cessful marriage. If your soon-to-be spouse is willing to commit to work out any problem the two of you have, you've found a good thing. Last piece of advice. Whether you do the counseling or not, put a lot of focus on communication. Poor communication can cause the best of intentions between two people to turn into the worst of situations. There is a strong correlation between intimate communication and marital satisfaction. However, I would say that the same is likely true for all forms of communication, not just communication about your intimacy....Show more
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